Archive for the ‘*South Africa’ Category

Why I’m a Recluse

Friday, April 11th, 2008

Four weeks and just one night out (the pizza was actually take out). I’m a recluse. I know.

I actually have a lot of work I’m trying to finish up right now. Not overwhelming. But close.

But that’s not the only reason. I’ve been trying my hardest to think of how best to explain the discomfort I often have in social situations in this country.

The explanation came this week.

The other volunteer here, a German 19-year-old, had made a friend the night the two of us went to the bar. He invited us back to the bar this week. We both passed. So the next night he invited us to a party. I passed. She went.

When she came back, she was amazed at the conversations she heard. It was an all-white party, and of course they started talking about race relations in the country. The subject of whites and blacks living in the same areas came up. They tried to explain to her why it just didn’t make sense to them. “I mean it’s like, think about the wild. Different animals don’t drink from the same watering hole. It’s just not natural.”

Yeah. And the girl STILL hung out with them again the next night.

Food for Thought

Wednesday, April 9th, 2008

pizza

Yes. I’ve been here for almost four weeks, and I’ve only had restaurant food once. If you know me at all, you know that’s definitely not normal.

It’s not quite Shakespeare’s…but it’s pizza. One of the only things you can buy in this town.

Rats…now I miss Shakespeare’s.

Barfing from Abroad

Tuesday, April 8th, 2008

“Kansas surges past Memphis to NCAA title”

Out of all the years I’m out of country for a Final Four, I’m sure glad it was this one.

Watching and Waiting

Saturday, April 5th, 2008

news update image

Is anyone else watching the Zimbabwe election updates (or lack thereof) as much as me? Ohmigosh. Seriously. Don’t they know there are Americans waiting to book tours to their country and need to know the safety situation? Really now. Let’s get on with this. Victoria Falls is calling my name.

Me No Speak Chinese

Thursday, April 3rd, 2008

The whole group didn’t fit in the home’s van, so some of us elected to walk back to the home after the prison visit. A kilometer or so into the walk, the van pulled back around and stopped right next to me. “Jayna, you have to come back to the office and take care of something,” said the home’s supervisor. As there’s very little we volunteers “have” to do, I immediately got a bit apprehensive. “There’s three men at the office who need to speak with you,” he told me as I closed the passenger door.

“Maybe they’re your friends? They pulled up in a white truck,” he said, trying to give me more clues. Now I was starting to get really confused. I didn’t know anyone else in the town other than the people who work at the home/office. The only other people I’d talked to were the cashiers at the grocery store. Who in the heck could be waiting for me?

When we stopped in front of the office, there was the aforementioned white truck. And three Chinese guys standing on the porch. “Nee how,” one said. Although I know he was saying “hello,” in Chinese, I still responded in English. No need to get the guy confused with my ability to speak the language. He still started speaking to me in Chinese. I responded in English that I didn’t understand.

“But you are from China…”

“No, I’m from the US.”

Blank stare. Confused look. “Where?”

“I’m American.”

“Ah…but your family.”

“No. My family is American.”

Head nod. “I own business here, and I don’t speak good English. Need someone to translate Chinese to English. You help?”

“I don’t speak Chinese. Sorry, I can’t help you.”

“But your father. He is Chinese.”

“No. My father is German.”

At that statement, there was a moment of understanding on his face. So I said “sorry” one more time and walked away. I came back into the office to the curious questions of the office staff. In the middle of explaining, old boy walks into the room asking, “So you’ll help?” Uh…no.

The really creepy thing is I have no idea who this guy is. Nor do I know how he knows where I stay/work. The only way is if he sat around and watched me one day. I get the willies just thinking about it.

One More Holiday

Tuesday, April 1st, 2008

OK, so I was totally wrong earlier when I said Easter was the last holiday I’d miss. I completely forgot about April Fools’ Day, which apparently isn’t so celebrated in South Africa. It’s a shame, too. This was actually a really fun holiday around the house I lived in in LA. Most of us tended to have a pranky personality.

So, in honor of the day, I thought I’d share with you a photo from those days…here’s a pic of a depantsing gone bad.

torn shorts

Inside These Prison Walls

Monday, March 31st, 2008

Last week at the children’s home an opportunity came around that I just couldn’t pass up. The kids were to go one morning to visit the local correctional facility (i.e. prison). Although I wasn’t required to go, I definitely wanted to…I mean, how many times do we foreigners get to see another country’s prisons without having committed a crime? Not that often. So, yeah, I was eager to join in on the trip.

Before the trip started, I have to say I was a bit dismayed…I figured it was going to be a “don’t mess up” scare tactic for the little ones. Then, I was reminded that the supervisor of the home used to be a police officer. It was actually set up to be more of a “here is a place you can work when you’re older” kind of trip.

And, yes, it is a place that many of them can work. The center employs quite a few locals. I have to say I was flabbergasted by the size of the facility in comparison to the size of the city. Basically the city has a downtown area of two square blocks. There is like one video store. No malls. No movie theater. It’s a small place. Yet the prison holds 300-some-odd prisoners. Granted they’re from some of the surrounding cities, too. But 300 is definitely a large chunk of the population. And before we went in, the guards asked if the kids were scared and when they said no, he said that was good because the men in there were “our fathers, our brothers, our uncles” etc., etc. And he wasn’t just saying that in the figurative sense. Nope. Most of the staff and some of the kids bumped into someone they knew on the inside.

And the inside is basically nothing like what prisons are like in America (from what I’ve seen on Law & Order). All but the worst sleep in dorm-like rooms (the trouble ones have single cells) housing five or more men that open up to a courtyard. During their free time they get to go to school (with teachers who actually seem to care), make curtains and handbags, cook meals, or make music. Twice during the trip we were treated to performances from inmates at two different units. The first a cappella group sang traditional South African music. The second — with the assistance of a keyboard and electric guitar — sang a rendition of Cher’s “Do You Believe in Life after Love.” (Yes, it’s safe to say I enjoyed the South African music a bit more…)

But there was one striking similarity to the prisons in America…while walking through the halls, one of the kids leaned over to me and said, “Jayna…have you noticed there’s no white people in here?” Yep. I had. We actually did end up seeing one of them before the morning was over. But in reality, I think he may have even just been a light-skinned “colored” man.

All in all, the day was a great learning experience for me. Perhaps the most thought-provoking part of it was hearing a man convicted of shooting someone talk. During apartheid he — like many others — had been imprisoned for little or no reason; after apartheid ended, he vowed he would never go to prison again. Yet, despite an education and working as a school administrator, he found himself committing a crime — that he doesn’t fully seem to regret — and back in prison. And as we freely walked through the prison and inmates were allowed to stand right next to us and interact with us without a guard menacingly breathing down their necks, I came to realize…for some people here, prison is a way of life. I kind of get the feeling that the imprisonment during apartheid continues to carry on in people’s minds in the way that going to the slammer isn’t that big of a deal — thus adding to the problem of controlling crime in the country.

Sitting in my flat later that night, a truly disturbing thought entered my mind. I realized that I felt safer walking around in the halls, courtyards, and cells of the prison than I ever have walking down any street in the rest of South Africa.

police station
I didn’t take any pictures of the prison, but this is the local police station…

Egg-sactly

Thursday, March 27th, 2008

Easter eggs

eating chocolate egg
So the day AFTER Easter we had an Easter egg hunt with the kids at the home. (I have no idea why it wasn’t on Easter, but que sera sera)

However, there were no actual Easter eggs. We did, though, have lots of these chocolate egg-like things. As you can see, they’re no Cadbury eggs. Mmm…Cadbury.

Up To

Wednesday, March 26th, 2008

children's home logo

Some of you may have been wondering what I’ve been up to for the last couple of weeks and why I’m staying in South Africa so long.

Well…I’m here in a REALLY small town volunteering at a children’s home. During the evenings (and sometimes during the day now that the kids are on spring break), I’m teaching the 28 older kids. Mostly I’m doing a lot of reading/language arts skills and also helping with their basic math skills.

I have to say, it’s been a bit difficult sometimes as not only is there a wide range of ages but also a wide range of skill levels within each age. But…it’s coming along. And we’ll see where we’re at two to three weeks from now…

Happy Belated Easter

Monday, March 24th, 2008

So when I e-mailed my sister yesterday, I realized Easter is the last major holiday I’m missing away from the States.

When I talked to my family earlier that day, I also remembered how zany my family is (and found out one of you has been telling my mom about the pickpocketing…). So, yeah, I have to say, I promised my sis I wouldn’t leave her alone for family holidays for an entire year again.

And since I have no Easter pics, here’s another pic of a penguin in South Africa.

Random? Yes. But that’s me.

Just imagine he/she is telling you “Happy belated Easter.”

penguin in Cape Town, South Africa